Be the Solution Not the Problem
Friday, January 18, 2013
I LIke You- guess blogger Emilie
I think at some point in everyone's life there will come a time when they find someone else that they like or likes them. While that might be nice 'n' all sometimes the other person doesn't feel the same. They feel bad for not liking the person back and feelings are hurt. The way to tell the person is definitly not for you is if they only think of themselves, or only like you for your looks. I've been in this situation before and I've told them to back off or that I don't like them. When all else fails I don't know what to do. Sometimes telling them off works but not always. What should I do? How should I react? I would greatly apperiat you oppinions.
Thursday, January 17, 2013
The Chocolate Bar -my guessed blogger for today is my brother
Whenever I get a chocolate bar I can't help myself, but to eat the hole thing at once no matter how big it is. I don't care how long it takes me or how sick I get I just have to finish the candy bar. I feel like the only way I can eat a chocolate candy bar is by consuming the hole thing at once. Now the problem with that is that it is only a temporarily solution to stop the craving at that moment. It'll soon comeback and when I don't have chocolate I try tricking myself with other foods like sweeter or bitter tasting foods to satisfy the craving. I would like to know if you have any other ideas on how i might be able to get rid of or help my cravings. Comments with your thoughts, thank you.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Stuck- by Dustin my guess blogger
When your stuck in something you don't want to leave what do you do? How do you react? What do you do to fix it so your not stuck? When you look at everything and try to see that bigger picture that helps connect the dots. We try to step back and listen to the problem and fix it. We learn to become more excepting towards one another and different points of view. But that can be hard sometimes, well its hard most of the time. But with out understanding and listening and trying to figure it out we wont get anywhere in life at all. Work and School and everything else is based on listening and understanding and communication. So sometimes we have to realize that may taking a step back is the best things, to listen, look, and expand our view points so we can except new ones in our lives. If you have any comments be more then willing to express yourself.
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Blogs For Everyone
I have descoved that their are other boggs or web site talking about problem that are a little more put together and focused on one goal compared to mine. I thought you would like to know some so thanks I posted some links to other blogs below. The first two are to some of my friends who blog about fashion. The other three are other problem solving blogs.
http://bootsppumpsandawholelotoffun.blogspot.com/ her blog is more on fastion and shoes.
http://rockeditt.blogspot.com/2013/01/zig-zag-dress-i-think-yes.html
http://problemsolvingpractical.blogspot.com/
http://blog.youthventure.org/2012/12/educate-for-problem-solving-not.html
http://problemsolvinmom.blogspot.com/
http://bootsppumpsandawholelotoffun.blogspot.com/ her blog is more on fastion and shoes.
http://rockeditt.blogspot.com/2013/01/zig-zag-dress-i-think-yes.html
http://problemsolvingpractical.blogspot.com/
http://blog.youthventure.org/2012/12/educate-for-problem-solving-not.html
http://problemsolvinmom.blogspot.com/
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Power Less
We are all powerless over our lives. We can not control every little thing that happens, and we have to let some things go. But when we can't do anything about it, what do we do? How do we react? We want to freak out when some thing is out of line and not normal to us, but as people of a society we are not allowed to freak out. Instead, we must learn we are power less right? We have to give our problems to a higher power. We must let go and, some say, let God take control.We can't do it by ourselves, we are human beings and go a little nuts in our heads and throw tantrums, but we know what to do in the end. Give it to God. Its hard and we are scared but it gets easier, and we feel better. And sometimes we just don't know and maybe not knowing is better then nothing. If you have a comments your welcome to leave some. Thank you for reading.
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Talking
As a teenage we feel like we cant trust adult. We know adults to be the ones that "just want to help" right? And maybe we don't want their help. when we screw up and tell an adult they try fixing it for us, or even make the situation worst. Sometimes adults take control when we don't ask and make it sound like its are fault that they have to deal with the situation when we never asked them to. Sometimes as teens we like to complain about other adults to are parents and you know what are parents do? They try to resolve the issue by telling the adult we were complaining about the stuff we said. Seriously -.- sometimes we want to complain and not be taken totally seriously. Are parents complain about other parents or other adults in general but do we go and tell the other parents or other adults? No. At least we know how to keep are mouths shut. And if you parents never understood why your child or teen never tells you something I wonder why. I hope I gave you a small hint on what could be the problem. If you have any questions don't be scared to ask I wont tell anybody.
Friday, January 11, 2013
Blame
I had this teacher that didn't like admitting when she was wrong and just blamed the students. We all at one point or another blamed someone else for our actions. We don't like taking responsibility for things we mess up on. After all its not our fault right? If we hurt someone their just to sensitive right? No, as children we learn to take responsibility, but we slip and blame someone else. I don't like it when someone blames something on me when it was their fault. I also don't like taking responsibility for being wrong. But I have to take responsibility for my actions and choices. I can only control myself. I cant control you. Especial if you do something that will end up just hurting you at the end with full knowledge of what that out come could be. Nobody else's fault. What do you think? What have you blamed on someone else and thought it was ok? Or maybe someone else blamed you.
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